Falling in love is a beautiful thing. Once the “falling” has
passed, a love that lasts is even more beautiful.
“Steadfast love and faithfulness will meet;
righteousness and peace will kiss each other.
Faithfulness will spring up from the ground,
and
righteousness will look down from the sky.
The Lord will give what is good,
and our
land will increase.
Righteousness will go before him,
and will
make a path for his steps.” Psalm 85
Christmas Day is about steadfast love. Not a fleeting love
which passes on a whim. The birth of Christ is the birth of hope grounded in
the promises and the promise-keeping love of God. God keeps promises when we do
not. We fall in and out of love with others, things, ideas, beauty, and self.
We seek a steadfast love. We seek a ground upon which we can stand and feel the
faithfulness come up under our feet, disturbing our soles. God is faithful when
we are not.
We seek the security and safety of a steadfast love. When
others may disappoint us or we disappoint ourselves, we need something solid
under us. We need something to hold us up and together. We need something we
can hang on to, something permanent and holds things together. We need
something that runs through our life and makes sense out of suffering and joy. The
Steadfast love of God is that thread which holds things together.
For some of us Christmas, holidays, are not as joyous as we
would like. We carry grief and regret of the past and anxiety over the future. When
we fear we cannot hold things together we need a thread of truth and hope to
hold us and our life intact.
William Stafford offers us hope in his poem, “The Way It
Is”:
There’s a
thread you follow. It goes among
things that
change. But it doesn’t change.
People wonder
about what you are pursuing.
You have
to explain about the thread.
But it is hard for others to see.
While
you hold it you can’t get lost.
Tragedies happen; people get hurt
or
die; and you suffer and get old.
Nothing
you do can stop time’s unfolding.
You don’t ever let go of the thread.”
So, Blessed Christmas, Holy and Happy Christmas, to you and
your loved ones as you
continue to Hang On to the Thread.
– Randy Wilburn